How Can Role Playing Games Make You More Desirable
- by Aunishka Lodh
Role playing can be quite intimidating. It's hard enough to feel comfortable being yourself during sex, let alone someone else. Moreover, what if my partner finds my fantasy too odd? What if I break out of character? What if I get shy… or worse, what if my partner starts laughing at me? All these questions have kept people from giving role playing games a try in their relationships.
Once you’ve moved past the nerves, look at role playing games as a means to spice things up and give your partner yet another reason to take you right then and there.
1. Know Your Partner, Know Their Fantasy
Have conversations around your partner’s favourite superhero movies, first celebrity crush, favourite romance movie and figure out which character you can play out. From Barbie and Ken to that one scene from The Wolf of Wall Street, you can recreate multiple scenarios to get your partner excited with the idea of role playing games.
2. Nothing Beats the Basics
We get that not all couples want to discuss movies just to role play. In that case, go with the basics and you can’t go wrong. Our top pick is to head to a bar and pretend to be strangers picking each other up for the first time. Then, there are always classic power dynamics to fall back on, like cop and criminal or doctor and patient, take your pick.
3. Get Into Character
While a costume change is not mandatory for role playing games. Elements to get into character can definitely add mystery to the experience. For some women, a wig –going from black to blonde or from straight to curly can really help you get into the idea of a new identity. The same goes for decorating your environment. You probably won't be able to transform your bedroom completely into a classroom for a hot-for-teacher scenario, but bringing in a chalkboard or desk and chair will go a long way.
4. Be You But Better
While role playing games have their time in a relationship, there’s nothing more attractive than a partner who loves you for exactly who you are. Wear your favourite outfit and their favourite undergarments and give them a show. Role playing as a sexier, confident and wilder version of yourself is our top recommended role playing game for couples.
5. Have Fun Cause That’s All That Matters
After all this planning, it might feel like you're about to audition for a role in a movie, but don't get caught up in the theatrics of it all. The aim is to feel turned on, not win an Oscar. If you break character and burst into laughter, don't sweat it and move on. Confidence is the best prop you’ll have while role playing.
The beauty of role playing is that you and your partner get to fool around. You can step out of the mundane and step into any imaginary world you want. Use role playing games as a tool to switch things up and to make your partner feel like a priority.
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